MYTH NO 3: Puppy needs to learn about dominance/be put in his place?

It is true that your puppy should know you are the ‘leader of the pack’ but be careful – you must always achieve this using positive reinforcement.

So how can you do this? You can ask your puppy for a ‘please’ before giving him anything – think of it as he gets ‘nothing for nothing’. Ask for a sit/paw/down etc before giving treats/feeding meals/letting out/putting on a lead etc. Always use a lovely, happy voice when your puppy gets it right!

Confirmation that you are a good leader can also be achieved by you taking control of play sessions. When you play tug of war, ensure you win the toy more often that your puppy – simple, but effective! Also, when your puppy wants to play, always ask him to sit/give paw before the game can start. The game is then the lovely, fun reward!

Any negative reinforcement, ie hands on, physical punishment or even excessive verbal reprimand will ensure your puppy does not trust you and will therefore ruin any bond you may have had.

Remember: a good leader should be trustworthy, predictable and fair. Your reward will be a trusting, well-adjusted and well-mannered dog who is a pleasure to be around.

Don’t forget, at Grove Lodge we have a behaviourist who can discuss training and behaviour. Please call 01903 234866.